I was fortunate to meet Jackie when we were both expectant mums and we then met up each week with our new babies, who quickly became toddlers and then started playgroup and school together. I still smile when I remember Claire asking Jackie if she could have a 'twister'. This was at a time when many of Claire's friends were having little brothers and sisters. Jackie very patiently explained to her how it was quite a big decision for a mummy and daddy to have another baby and how much they loved having Claire. Claire listened patiently and then said 'oh, but I only want an ice lolly....'. This thought returns to me most summers when choosing ice lollies for my grandchildren. Jackie did make me smile and it was lovely sharing such special times with her xx